In a little over a week, I’ll be whisking my wife, 4-year-old, and 2-year-old away for a long weekend in Florida. We’re meeting my wife’s sister and her family (husband, 2-year-old, and 8-month-old) and have rented a house on the beach. Obviously, with this many kids, we needed to find a house with a lot of rooms, entertainment options, a full kitchen, and of course a safe environment for the kids.
I left most of the work up to my wife, but she found a great place in Florida. Our house has 5 bedrooms, a full kitchen, a private pool and hot tub, and is only 1 block from the beach. At first, the thought of having a pool right in the backyard was a little concerning. However, my wife did a lot of research, and this place specializes in families. They provide a safety gate around the pool and hot tub, baby monitors, high chairs, strollers, safety plugs over all of the outlets, and every other kind of child safety equipment you can think of. More and more rental properties like this are catering to families with small children, as it is a growing market that will always exist.
There are numerous sites/tips out there to help you plan travel with your kids.
A few that we’ve used are:
This site is great. You don’t have to pack diapers, food, bath supplies, etc. You can order everything you’ll need for as long as you’ll be gone, and they’ll ship it all to your destination. Sure you pay a little extra for the convenience, but it’s well worth it. All that stuff can easily fill another suitcase, and with all the new airline rules regarding luggage and carry-on items, it’s just easier and may be cheaper in the long run to ship all of these items. And if you’re going to do that anyway, you might as well have someone do all the packing/shipping for you.
2. Skip the resorts.
You’ll pay way too much and have to wait in line for the same experience that millions of other people have. I’m sure I’ll take the kids to Disney World when they’re a little older and can appreciate it more, but if you want to do something unique, simply get on Google and start searching out your own adventure. It took a couple days of searching to find a reputable rental company, but once we did, we noticed that they prominently displayed the fact that they provided child-proof options for families. The place we settled on was: BeachHouseFL.com. Private houses are definitely the way to go. Think access to a kitchen, dishwasher, laundry…Priceless when you have wee ones who like to be unpredictable at best.
3. If you can, plan your flights around your kid’s nap times, if they’re good sleepers.
As infants, our kids had NO problems sleeping on planes. On our son’s first trip to Texas to visit Katy’s sister, our son slept from takeoff until about 15 minutes before landing, where he cried for 15 minutes straight. Hey, it’s better than crying for 2 hours straight. Direct flights are also key. It’s a little tough for us, living in Iowa, but luckily most of the places we visit are a direct flight away, or a short car-ride away.
4. Airplanes are NOT the place to enforce a life lesson with your kids.
Bribe them, give them a sucker, do whatever you have to do to keep them quiet and happy.
There are others around you who don’t want to hear your child screaming for the entire flight. This may sound harsh, but it’s the truth. A happy kid will make everyone around you more friendly, including the flight staff. A kid that’s screaming will only make for a terrible experience all around. One trick we’ve always used, is to pack a couple new toys that your child has never seen before, and bring one out just when he/she’s starting to get fussy. That should keep them happy for a little while. If they start to get fussy again, pull out the second toy.
5. If you’re traveling with multiple kids, keep a separate bag for each child with toys, treats, books, etc.
There’s no guarantee that you’ll be sitting next to your spouse and other children, as some airlines have regulations about multiple lap children in the same row, and you may be required to move quickly. Having a separate bag for each kid will make things easier so you’re not trying to sort through one large bag digging out the items your child will want/need.
Fly those friendly skies…and take your kids…they’ll love it.
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Hi Mat: Very helpful post. I am wondering what beach in Florida. I live on the suncoast just south of Tampa. Also wondering where your home base is that you would choose a Florida vacation. Its was 91 degree’s here today. Gulf water temp is a nice 78 degrees.
Mark-
We’re heading for Clearwater Beach.
Home base is Iowa. We had snow coming down just a little bit even last week, so 90 degrees and 78 degree water will be a nice change from the rain/snow we’ve been having up here.
You’re making it just before it gets nasty hot here.
I’m sure you’ll enjoy your time here in Florida.
Have any suggestions for dealing with ears popping? I remember people suggesting chewing gum, but it never helped me.
Ear-popping for you? or for your kids?
For me, I just try to force myself to yawn. That always seems to work for me.
For the kids, suckers seem to do the trick. I think it’s the constant saliva and swallowing that keeps the kids happy.
I know they also make kid ear-plugs that are supposed to help. I’ve never used them with my kids, so I can’t vouch for them. Here’s one option:
- http://www.onestepahead.com/catalog/product.jsp?productId=14762&cmSource=Search
or
http://www.cirrushealthcare.com/EarPlanes-C8.aspx
Also, my wife said that she has seen people, in a pinch, ask the flight staff for 2 coffee cups which they proceeded to hold over their child’s ears. I have no idea if this works, but it could at the very least be entertaining for everyone else to watch.
Have fun on your trip! We went to Florida this past Feb and rented a 4 bedroom Villa in Davenport, FL while we were down there. I agree it’s so much better than staying at a resort/hotel. I know that’s the only way we will go if we are going to be staying at one place for a long time.
Regarding ear popping… I just had my kids drink out of their sippy cups (the kind with the straws) and they never had any problems.